The First Kiss

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

You like this guy and he likes spending time with you too. He hasn't said the golden words to you yet but you know that he loves you. You are going out with him tonight and your heart says that something special will happen tonight. Well be prepared for this special night. If he kisses you then make it one that he will remember and make him look forward to things to come.

Be alone
Don't go out in a group if you want to spend time with him alone. Your first kiss has to be special and if you are surrounded by a crowd of people then that will not be possible. Hence ask him to take you out to a quite place or go for a drive or walk.

Don't scare him off
Just as you are nervous, know that your boy-friend is also nervous. Thus relax and make him feel comfortable. Don't scare him off by continuously talking and being occupied with other things. He might think that you are not interested. Give him a chance to make the first move.

Have good breath
While kissing the most important thing is to have a great breath. Make sure to brush and floss before going out on a date. Use breath fresheners to have great breath at all times. If you have eaten anything on your date then keep a gum or mint on hand.

Timing is necessary
You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss. At this time don't back off, your body language should say that you want to be kissed.

Let him touch you
Men like to feel women when they are kissing and that really feels great. Thus when you are kissing him don't struggle to keep his hands off because you think that it tickles you. Let him touch your body and feel you.

Close your eyes
Make sure you close your eyes while you are kissing. If your eyes are open your boyfriend might think that you are not enjoying the moment or that he is forcing himself on you. Thus keep your eyes closed and completely immerse yourself in this beautiful experience.


source : loveboosters.com

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Star Sign Kissing

Aries
Your kisses are quick and passionate. At times it is full of lustful pleasure that is there for some moment and then gone. You are in all a very passionate and lustful kisser.

Taurus
You are a kind of kisser whose kisses linger for hours together. Your kisses are soft, heartfelt and caring.

Gemini
Your kisses are interrupted by paroxysm of giggles, smiles and funny observations. You are not a lustful and passionate kisser but love to go slow, spicing up the moments of pleasure.

Cancer
Your kisses are soft, gentle, warm and tender, and you never want to let go of them.

Leo
Your kisses are wild and uninhibited just as your personality. You like to dominate even when you are making love. You like making love in the wild manner of biting and clawing and you expect applause for your performance, which sometimes you do get. According to you love should be wild and dangerous.

Virgo
Your kisses are so subtle and tidy, your lover only notices them once you've finished and then it will be difficult to stop for your partner will never want to let go of you.

Libra
You're too busy worrying about your breath to really get into your kisses. You are too busy worrying about your appearance; your looks and therefore you do not enjoy kissing so much since you are always freaked out over something or the other. Chill out and put some life in your kisses.

Scorpio
You skip the kiss and get straight to � whatever comes next for you.

Sagittarius
Your kisses are surprising, playful, mysterious and spontaneous that leaves your lover wanting for more.

Capricorn
When you kiss you relieve yourself of all the tension and stress. Your kisses are intense moments of sublime relief from the stress of your day. You kiss with all your heart and soul.

Aquarius
Your kisses are wet and messy, and you tend to keep your eyes open. This shows that you love flirting and cannot be satisfied with one lover.

Pisces
Your kisses are starry-eyed, idealistic, romantic and long lasting. You are a very romantic person and kiss with full of love and passion.

source : loveboosters.com

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Kissing Troubleshoots

Monday, October 8, 2007

1. Moving too quickly

Be careful not to startle the kisses - watch and wait for the signal to proceed
If you aren't sensitive in your kissing, how empathetic and caring can you be about the rest of the relationship

2. Wet, sloshy, squishy, fishy

If you or the kisses need to wipe your lips, or chin, dry after the kiss - well, it wasn't 'perfect' was it?

3. Smash-mouth smothering kiss of death

Avoid the over-passionate, insensitive kiss that leaves the kisses gasping for air.

4. Chapped, Cactus Lips

There's a delicate balance to lip moisture equation. The last thing you want to do is drool on your partner, but you definitely don't want to leave scars with crispy, chafed lips.

5. Too much Tongue and Too Much, Too Soon

Keep that tongue tucked away until you get the right signals, then apply with caution - later

6. Dragon Breath

A mint or two, breath saver, gum, spray - anything to get rid of gunk-mouth.

7. Weak, Wobbly or Wooden Passionless Pecks

The swoop in and bounce out kiss is simply meaningless - unless you want to impart a "let's just sort-of be friends" type of message.

8. Smacking, Clacking Loud Kisses

The old "clack and smack" kills romance in a flash.


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How To Kiss !

Friday, October 5, 2007

There are so many different ways to kiss. The two main basic ones are close-mouthed kissing and French kissing. French kissing involves an open mouth and with tongue, while close-mouthed kissing is pretty self-explanatory. We thought it would be easier for first-time kissers if they knew at least the kissing basics before they try to approach other kisses, such as French kissing.

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you don't, don't worry about it. Your partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle or they will kiss you straight on. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open, looking into one another's eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way once you're more comfortable kissing your partner.

Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

Hands - There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner's waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner's face in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your partner's neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner's upper or lower arms gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just hold their hands in yours.

And there you have it, the basics of kissing! When you try to put them all together in your mind it makes it seem like kissing is very difficult. But when you actually apply them in real life it's quite easy. Kissing is a natural response to show affection for someone and if done with someone you really care about it will feel totally natural.

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How to Know If Someone Likes You ?

Wednesday, October 3, 2007


  1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you.

  2. Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot.

  3. Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd.

  4. Observe if s/he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.

  5. Pay attention to any significant changes in her/his behavior toward you recently.

  6. Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond.

  7. Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you.

  8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?'

Tips:

  1. Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort!
  2. Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique

source : about.com

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Tasty Treat !

Can you see anything? you whisper in my ear. I open my eyes under the blindfold, attempting to search for light or objects, but I see none. I shake my head no and you continue to speak.

Take my hand so I can help you up. I feel your hand rest on my thigh so I reach down and grab it as you guide me off the bed. Standing up, I feel your hands on my waist; you begin to slide my t-shirt up. I lift my arms in compliance, not knowing why you are undressing me, but not averse to the idea. After removing my top, I can feel you loosening the drawstring on my pajama bottoms. I shift my weight to your hand when you pull the bottoms off my feet. Naked now, my nipples harden with the coolness in the room.

Now lay back down, you tell me, helping me sit down. You adjust the pillows behind me so that I am propped up. I’m still wondering what’s going on, but all I can see is darkness and the only sounds I can hear are Sade singing softly in the background and you adjusting yourself on the bed.

What’s going on? I ask you, becoming anxious. I knew of some things I would like you to do to me while I was blindfolded, but I couldn’t figure out what was on your mind. I had to admit to myself though that I wanted to kiss your lips, and taste your tongue ,just one kiss before the festivities began.

Today, we are going to focus on your sense of smell and taste. Open your mouth and stick out your tongue you advise me.

I follow your orders but don’t taste anything. I take a deep breath and get a whiff of citrus in the air and move my head in its direction. Finally I can feel something fleshy on the tip of my tongue. I close my mouth around it and bite down. I can feel your fingers around the piece of fruit so I suck on them gently before you pull them out. I chew on the slice of orange and swallow.

Okay, so what you have to do now is guess what it is that I’ve fed you, if you get enough correct answers, there will be a tasty treat for you at the end, you tell me. I smile at the prospect of the tasty treat at the end; I wonder what that could be.

Mmmm, well, I think that was an orange, I say assuredly.

Are you sure? you reply, causing me to question myself.

Ummm yes, I’m sure, I say without confidence. Silence followed and then after what seemed like forever you respond.

Yes, you’re right, it’s an orange. Now, get ready for the next one. I wait eagerly for another mystery fruit, but it doesn’t come. Instead I feel a syrupy substance dripping on my chest and stomach. I can faintly smell a cocoa scent, however before I can decipher the smell I can feel your tongue gliding on my skin, licking up the thick liquid. While it felt good, I had no idea how I would be able to guess what it was without tasting it myself.

I hear myself let out a low moan as you lick off some of the substance that has trickled down to the side of my waist. I wonder what that tastes like, I think to myself, but no sooner did I have that thought, then I feel your lips on mine. You kiss me and I taste chocolate on your tongue. I tilt my head upward and lean forward in an attempt to sneak in a longer kiss, as you begin to pull away, but you gently push me back into the pillows.

What did you taste? you question me. Ummm, I’m not quite sure, I think I need another taste, I say coyly, knowing beyond a doubt that it was chocolate syrup. I’m sure my huge grin gave away the fact that I am fibbing just so I can get you to lick and kiss me again. I feel your finger circle my left nipple where some syrup still exists before placing the tip in my mouth for me to taste. Still tastes good to me! Mmmm, that’s chocolate syrup, mixed in with you, I say laughing. You continue to tease me with more sweet treats, tracing moist pieces of fruit on my neck and then licking it off sometimes, or sticking your finger in thick liquids then letting me suck on them, or even putting pieces in your mouth and placing them in mine along with kisses. This continued on for about an hour before you announced that our little game was over.

Okay, so did I win the surprise? I say clapping my hands.

No, you answered incorrectly two times so you don’t get it, you notify me.

Wait that’s no fair, I only got two wrong, and it’s hard to distinguish between a lemon and a lime anyway, I say in protest.

Alright. I’ll give you one more chance, you say shifting on the bed. You grab my feet and pull me until I am laying flat on the bed. I strain my ears to hear what you are doing, but I’m not getting any clues. I can feel you carefully place your knees around my ears. A familiar scent reaches my nose mixed with a hint of cinnamon. I can feel the pressure of your body on my chest. Ooo, ooo, ooo, this is exactly the sort of treat I have been waiting for since the beginning of our game. The scent is getting stronger and I have started to lift my head to get a taste, to no avail.

“Are you ready for your tasty treat? you ask me in a sexy voice. Yes was all I could say before I taste your femininity, flavored with cinnamon sauce all in my mouth.


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