How to Make Your Guy More Romantic

Friday, September 28, 2007

Of course, not all men are in tune with their romantic side. Fortunately, most men are highly trainable, and according to the panelists at the Web site GuyCritical.com, you can make your man more romantic -- if you proceed carefully. "Don't ever pressure a guy into romance," says one GuyCritical panelist, a writer from New York. "That's a sure turnoff and the most unromantic thing you can do." Here's what you can do:

1. Employ the golden rule. The best way to make your man romantic is by example -- but remember, you need to give him romance on his terms, not yours. "Pamper him. Do what he wants once in a while -- be it drinking with the buddies, playing a computer game, or just watching TV," says an entrepreneur from Atlanta, who adds that a spicy ending to any of these activities will make it all the more memorable. "After that, show him you'd appreciate same kind of attention towards you, and eventually he'll put it together."

2. Take charge. Plan an entire night on the town and let your man sit back and enjoy the ride. "Women don't know how difficult it is for a guy to always find creative and fun things to do, especially if you're going out with someone two or three times a week," says a Los Angeles account executive. "So for me it's romantic when the girl picks out a new restaurant and says, 'Tonight I picked out a new place for us to go, and I'm really excited to go there with you.'"

3. Turn romance into a game. Michael Webb, founder of TheRomantic.com, suggests that you alternate planning weekly date nights. "If you appeal to their competitive nature, a lot of men would put more thought and effort into the evening, trying to outdo their mate," he says.

4. Take a tip from Pavlov. Let your guy know how much you appreciate little things he does for you -- cooking dinner, walking around to the passenger-side of the car to let you in, buying your favorite candy bar when you feel blue. "Show him how much you appreciate it. Bring it up in front of other women so he gets a few oohs! and ahhs!," says a banker from New York. "After that, he'll soon be flooding you with romantic moments!"

source : Ladies Home Journal

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The Sensitive Parts Of A Female Body !

Why is the major reason why some women fake their orgasms? Major reason being men who are not able to satisfy her woman to the fullest. Women take time to get turned on and most men prefer a quickie therefore you would never be able to satisfy a woman fully unless you know how to turn her on real quick. Knowledge of the most sensitive parts of the female body is very important and at the same time how to sensationalize these parts to turn her on carries the same importance. Read on to discover what these sensitive parts are which can help you achieve mind blowing results in bed.

Behind the ears- The best way to appeal to a woman is to blow behind her ear. Even the slightest of touches can turn her on and cause tremendous physical arousal. Ear lobes are one of the most sensitive parts of the female body.

The neck- This is one of the most sensitive parts of the female body including ear lobes. Slight tickles behind the neck or maybe some soft kissing can arouse the woman within seconds and get her ready for almost anything.

Toes- Some women get turned on when a man gives her slight foot massage or tickles the toes. This does not work on every woman but has been known to be preferred by some.

Tummy area- Some females prefer slight licking in the tummy area which normally tends to increase their arousal ratio.

Kissing- This is one of the best and most practiced way to turn a woman on and has been known to be the most effective of them all. Nothing can arouse a woman more than a passionate kiss when the moment is right. But stimulation to all the above mentioned body parts can turn a woman on within seconds.


source : ezinearticles.com

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5 Quick Tips To Help Seduce Women !

1. Confidence:

Confidence is vital and you need to make sure you have plenty of it. If you have a confidence problem you need to build it up with experience. A method to do this is to approach a beautiful woman and say “excuse me, I think your heal is about to fall off” (or along those lines) and then just walk away, this is not meant to get your in engaging conversation, it is supposed to help improve your confidence.

Ultimately you do not want to “feel confident” you want to be confident, you want it to come naturally for you, so the words confidence doesn’t even crop up in your mind.

2. Experimenting:

Experimenting is vital, you can know everything there is to know about seduction but it is useless if you do not use it and find which is the most effective for you. By experimenting you are also building up experience that can only improve your confidence.

3. Starting a conversation:

This is very handy if nothing has come to mind after the 3-second rule and it also helps to keep a rapport going. For continuous conversation you need to ask open-ended questions (usually start with the word what), make sure you have a few in your head to stop any stalling. Providing your questions were interesting you will be in conversation. Try not to ask boring questions that she can have with any body.

4. Echo her conversation:

Women like to be understood, for you to do this you need to listen to what she has to say, rephrase it, and then tell it back to her. By repeating what she is saying, she feels a connection is being made and doing such things as agreeing with her statements (even if they are wrong) will only build a stronger connection. The secret is to take something she has said, rephrase it, and make it seem like an original thought or opinion.

5. Things not to say in conversation:

What you say in the conversation is crucial you need to keep stimulating her mind until she cannot resist you any longer. Here are a few don’ts in conversation that will spoil the mood and ruin your chances:

Ø Don’t talk about your personal problems.

Ø Don’t get too drunk; try to limit your drinking to only a few, a drunken mess will not be impressive to women.

Ø Try to keep the conversation as positive as possible.

Ø Don’t bitch about previous girlfriends, resist any conversation at all on ex’s.

Ø Don’t’ focus on any of your bad points, if you have a health problem she will not want to hear.

Ø Acting desperate is a real turn off.


source : ezinearticles.com

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How to seduce a man !

1. Create the Right Environment

Seduction is best done is a sensual atmosphere. Make sure you are in a place where there is not much distraction like loud music, too many people and bad ambience. The best environment for seduction is candle lit dinner and soft music.

2. Confidence Counts

Men like women who are confident about themselves. So straighten those shoulders, put your nose up in the air and walk with that confident swagger. Be careful not to overdo it else it may look arrogant instead of confident.

3. Eye Contact

Eyes can communicate emotions. They are the windows to our soul. Lock him in a captivating glance and make sure you "speak" with your eyes. Maintain a steady gaze. Do not gawk or stare.

4. Play Hard to Get

Don't be too obvious in showing your interest in a guy. Ignore every now and then. But don't be so cold that the guy loses interest in you.


5. Looks that Kill

Slip on a sensuous dress, let your locks fall on your slender shoulders, wear those dangerously high stilettos and apply some make up. Accentuate your attractive features like eyes, lips or neck. If you find yourself gorgeous in the mirror, consider half of your job done!

6. Modulate your Tone

Nothing is more seductive than a gentle yet sensuous tone. Whisper something in his ear like " You look chic in blue" in that seductive tone. The guy will not only be flattered, you get to score brownie points and make your move!

7. Flirt

Flirt by all means. Tell him he looks like a Greek God, but please sound genuine. Blink your eyes to look vulnerable yet hard to get. You can slightly touch him on the shoulder or the wrist while laughing. Again, don't overdo it. Men don't like being pushed. Engage in a good conversation and give your viewpoints instead of nodding your head constantly to his.

8. Smell Good

Make sure you smell good. Apply a nice perfume that is not too strong. In order to make it last long, do layering. This means, you layer yourself with the same smell in different ways. For instance if your perfume smells of rose, put some drops of rose essential oils in your bathwater. Apply some powder that smells of rose and finally apply the perfume. DO NOT spray the perfume directly on yourself. Spray it in front of you and immediately walk through the mist. This makes sure it is not concentrated on some places and you smell good overall.

source : festivals.iloveindia.com

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Romantic Movies




1. Serendipity

On a bustling shopping day in winter, Jonathan meets Sara when both try to buy the same pair of gloves at Bloomingdale's department store. Two strangers amid the masses in New York City, their paths collide in the mad holiday rush as they feel a mutual attraction. Despite the fact that each is involved in another relationship, Jonathan and Sara spend the evening travelling Manhattan. But when the night reaches its inevitable end, the two are forced into determining some kind of next step. When the smitten Jonathan suggests an exchange of phone numbers, Sara balks and proposes an idea that will allow fate to take control of their future. If they are meant to be together, she tells him, they will find their way back into one another's life.

source : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serendipity_(film)


2. Sleepless in Seattle

Sam Baldwin, a Chicago architect, has just lost his wife to cancer. He and his son Jonah had recently moved to Seattle, but Jonah thinks his father needs a new wife in order to get back on track. One evening, he calls into a national radio advice show and persuades his father to also go on the air. The call is heard by thousands of women across the nation, including Annie Reed, a journalist from Baltimore, Maryland. Of the thousands of letters which flood them, Jonah finds one he likes. He tries to convince his father to go to New York City to meet her on Valentine's Day, but Sam refuses, due to the great distance and that she could be a psychopath like in Fatal Attraction. Knowing his father will follow him, Jonah flies to New York City. Jonah gets a taxi to the Empire State Building, saying he's going to meet his new mother. Sam, close behind, finally catches up with Jonah, who didn't find Annie. Jonah and Sam leave just before Annie rushes in. She is resignedly looking for them when she sees a child's backpack. When she turns around, Jonah and Sam have returned for Jonah's backpack. Sam holds out his hand and the three walk out together, with Jonah triumphantly leading the way.

source : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleepless_in_Seattle

3. French Kiss

When her fiance falls in love with a beautiful French woman in Paris, Kate follows him to the city of Light to win him back. But she gets more than she bargained for after meeting a sexy, mysterious Frenchman named Luc. Together, Kate and Luc embark on an adventure which takes them across France .. and into unexpected romance.



source: http://www.movieweb.com/movies/film/65/1865/summary.php

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Dating Guides

1. SMILE

      One of the first things a person notices when they see you is
      whether you are smiling or not. If you are, odds are, the person
      will smile back - it's a natural reaction. Your face gives off tons of
      clues as to your personality, attitude, and outlook. A smiling person       gives off a very good impression, while a frowning or grimacing
      person gives off a very negative one.

2. Learn natural behavior around women

           Also, beware. Never fake a smile. It's easy to spot.
           When you smile because it's polite, or strained, it looks
           wooden. To spot a sincere, happy, smile is a
           piece of cake.

           When you truly grin, the muscles under and on
           the outsides of your eyes bunch up, giving your eye's
           natural beautiful posture. It puts your whole
           face into the action, especially your eyes.
           So smile with your eyes, and people will be drawn.

3. Learn to emphasize nice side of your character and personality

Love is an unpredictable thing. We all want it, but few of us ever truly find it. But maybe we need to alter our perception of what "love" really is, and what constitutes a relationship.

Do you think you are not what girls usually look for in a guy? You could be a bit overweight, introspective, quite shy, and not exactly the "social champion". But what's dreadful about that? Most of the people are the same. What you are also, is smart, funny, caring, sensitive...

You say for yourself.

Do your average looks prevent you from approaching girls and socializing with people? In a human nature is to make every effort to be loved and perceived as sexy and attractive person. But if your looks are not your strong attribute, you can compensate for it with your nice expression, behavior or desired social manner like humor.

It's easier than you'd think to restart your social life and feel comfortable around the opposite sex. You can even attract very pretty girls if you learn to emphasize your strong and nice side. I’m about to show you how in a details! For more tips about socializing with the opposite sex, recovering from that destructive low self-image pattern, and begin with new startups, refer to the e books below:

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credits : datingfast.com

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Love Songs

           Even if I get hurt sometimes
           I want to keep feeling you
           At least I have my memories to comfort me
           I’ll always have you here

           - Arigatou(Thank You) , by Kokia


           When I need you
           I just close my eyes and I’m with you
           And all that I so want to give you
           It’s only a heart beat away

           When I need love
           I hold out my hand and I touch love
           I never knew there was so much love
           Keeping me warm night and day

           - When I need You , by Rod Steward


           Two hearts
           Two hearts that beat as one
           Our lives have just begun
           And forever
           I'll hold you close in my arms
           I can't resist your charms

           - Endless Love , by Lionel Richie


I need you like water
Like breath, like rain
I need you like mercy
From heaven’s gate
There’s a freedom in your arms
That carries me through
I need you

- I need you , by LeAnn Rimes


When a man loves a woman
Deep down in his soul
She can bring him such misery
If she is playing him for a fool
He's the last one to know
Loving eyes can never see

- When a man loves a woman , by Percy Sledge


I want to know what love is
I want you to show me
I want to feel what love is
I know you can show me

- I want to know what love is , by Foreigner


I'm sleeping
And right in the middle of a good dream
Like all at once I wake up
From something that keeps knocking at my brain
Before I go insane
I hold my pillow to my head
And spring up in my bed
Screaming out the words I dread:
"I think I love you!"

- I think i love you , by The Partridge Family


'Cause I can feel you breathe
It's washing over me
Suddenly I'm melting into you
There's nothing left to prove
Baby all we need is just to be
Caught up in the touch
The slow and steady rush
Baby, isn't that the way that love's supposed to be
I can feel you breathe
Just breathe

- Breathe , by Faith Hill


I can see me lovin' nobody but you
For all my life
When you're with me baby the skies'll be blue
For all my life
Me and you and you and me
No matter how they toss the dice
It had to be
The only one for me is you
And you for me
So happy together

- Happy Together , by The Turtles

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Love Inspirations

Thursday, September 27, 2007

Love is the anterior to life,
Posterior to death,
Initial of creation, and
The exponent of breath

- Emily Dickinson

           If Love is the Best thing in Life,
           Then, the Best part in Life is, the Kiss

           - Thomas Mann

           I wasn't kissing her,
           I was just whispering in her mouth

           - Chico Marx

           Love is composed of a single soul,
           inhabiting two bodies..

           - Aristotle

           Love is like a friendship caught on fire.
           In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce,
           but still only light and flickering.
           As love grows older,
           our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals,
           deep-burning and unquenchable.

           - Bruce Lee

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